my husband is fucking idiot

Hi there, I’m sorry u had to go through everything u had mention above. Sounds like u’ve been keeping a lot inside for a long time.. I mean, clearly there has been a lot of disappointment v the husband, sadness, frustration, and irritation that made the whole of emotion turn to anger n hate. I feel you dear. It sucks, very much. Except, I don’t come from a very rich or well to do family. As for that part, I wish n hope to become as successful one day☺️ Anyways, back to the rollercoaster ride that u’re on atm.. I get that u are annoyed, angry and frustrated v whatever u r feeling right now and how everything just seem so wrong v the environment that u’re in. Honestly it is, it is wrong that ur husband has forgotten how to give and take, it is wrong that he had forgotten to meet half way when both are adapting to both families at the same time, instead He lets u adapt to his on ur own. It is through all these wrongs that may hv lead to the person u are unhappy to be today. But, with ur background I’d say step up dear. Stand back up for the sake of u and ur beautiful daughter 🌸 Make something good out of all the bads.. if u can do all that u mention above, u can do anything :) stop pleasing those whom will only drag u down n make u go nuts for the sake of their low mentality. It is not worth it. U are better than this, it’s time to turn all those anger and hate towards positivity. Kill them with success and kindness. Let them play the victim but never let them make u the bad guy :) all those feeling of regrets and hate, push it aside for the sake of ur daughter and create something out of nothing and move only towards those whom will only push u up not down. Ignore all the fakeness while u create what’s real, A beautiful future with your daughter n little family. Perhaps u should sit and try to communicate v the hubs n remind him the importance of give n take, adapting together, being one as partner n a positive team to raise an important soul that has been gifted to both. If he continues to choose immaturity n stupidity. I’d let u decide what’s best, but remember.. never let anyone bring u down that way anymore. Chin up dear. Smile and live ur life the way u choose to live. Take care

Oh dear, that’s unhealthy. Sounds like ur husband is very good at manipulating a situation. Look, just because u are 12 years younger doesn’t mean he’s got all the right to mentally/ physically abuse u. Also, just cause he’s 12 years older doesn’t mean he’s super smart n knows how to handle everything. No one should treat another human being the way ur husband had treated u! Especially hitting u while u are pregnant v his daughter. What a dick move. I may not know u my dear, but please please make the best decision for the sake of u, ur daughter and both ur future. When one is deeply in love, love could easily blind us from all the bad that is temporarily unseen. Now that U’ve seen and felt what’s real behind all closed curtains. I hope moving forward u’ll be able to make wise and positive decisions. U don’t need such man to continue leading u astray and only move towards “no where”.. But your daughter needs u to lead her away from what could possibly harm her in the near future. Ur one true love now is actually ur daughter. She is one that will always have ur back/ look up to u. But as for now, she needs u to have hers and to protect her. Once again please remember that NO ONE has the right to mentally/ physically abuse another person the way ur hubs n his family had abuse u during ur pregnancy journey. That’s just super wrong.. I hope u are no longer staying v ur abusive husband and in laws. I wish u n ur daughter nothing but the best in the future. U can start focusing only on ur self and ur daughter now. Good luck and stay strong alright ! Also, they have not completely ruined ur whole life, u have a whole lot of life ahead of u still ❤️ Everyday is an opportunity to create a new start, the choice is all in ur hand 🌸