since u have decided to stay then work on ur marriage like communication, bonding. Going to places where u both always go to or explore new places tog. I would openly asked y he strayed. It must be the void feelings that he had that other woman could come in easily.
Even if u have children, do make yourself available once a week for a date tog. Hub comes first, marriage is impt only when a couple is in love. Talk about things other than work and children. Laugh at silly things.
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