Maternity Leave

Hay alam ko na yan, napakahirap talaga ng transition especially pag first time mom pa, 4 months lang with baby tapos biglang trabaho ulit, parang ang bilis ng panahon! Honest lang, ang hybrid setup mo ay blessing na because at least you have some flexibility, pero I get why you want pure WFH; personally when I went back, I realized na mas okay kung may designated work hours kasi kahit na home, kailangan mo ring mag-focus at hindi yan possible kung laging interuppted ka ng baby needs. The real game-changer for me was: let go of the "full-time mom" mindset while working, you're doing both, hindi mo need perfection sa dalawa, settle for "good enough" sa each; prepare everything the night before (bottles, clothes, snacks para sa iyo) para less stress sa umaga; and communicate with your partner na division of labor talaga from day one, hindi "help" lang, kundi equal responsibility (lalo na nights and weekends). 7 days to prepare, so gamitin mo to set up your systems, hindi mag-stress last minute. You've got this, mama!

Naovercome ko siya kasi naggive way noon yung hubby ko. Nagresign siya to take care of our baby for few months. Hanggang sa nasanay na ako magwork everyday sa office. Tapos nung nagwork na siya ulit, yung in-laws na namin ang nag-alaga. Kung may mapagkakatiwalaan ka naman na mag-aalaga sa anak mo kakayanin mo rin. You’re lucky, you have a hybrid work. Enjoy and don’t take it for granted.

Hi help nmn po, nag aalala at naistress narin kakaisip about dun sa napag kwentuhan namin Nung kakilala ko. tungkol po yon sa pag pulupot ng pusod sa Bata.. syempre po as full time mom na walang inaasahan sa gastusin kundi ang Asawa, takot Ako ma cs.. any tips po para ma prevent kopo Yung ganung sitwasyon sa aking panganganak? salamat po