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7 mth old baby food

what can a 7mth going 8mth baby eat? like durian , cheese etc. been only feeding him chicken, pork, fish, pumpkin, potato, carrots, scallops & his not interested in food anymore because it’s always a repeat.. :(

Yes you can try to give but in moderation

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Yellow pee in the morning, is it a cause of concern!?

Currently in 1st Trimester entering 2nd Trim. I can sleep thru the night but my pee is always very yellow by morning even though i try to drink enough water before going to bed. Througgout the day pee is almost clear. Do you think its a cause for concern? #1stimemom #pleasehelp

Super Mom

nope. don't worry

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Guess baby gender!

Hello mommies! Can anyone guess the baby gender! Excited!

Guess baby gender!

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2nd hand Spectra, get a portable one or handsfree?

Contemplating whether to get a 2nd hand Spectra S1 but buy new accessories (is it cheaper that way?), get a portable one or handsfree. Help! First time breastfeeding mum and I know nuts! If I want to buy the 2nd hand Spectra S1, just the motor & charger, where can I buy the accesories? I am really a noob. Appreciate if you have any link. Also how to know what size flange to use? 🙏

can buy from carousel for 2nd hand pump

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Freebies to share

Free 50 pieces of Bzu Bzu kids mask to be given away! Simply download the app and register for an account: http://onelink.to/chwwjd Once you register, go into the app, find the campaign, Bzu Bzu and click apply.

Freebies to share

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Anyone recently delivered at Parkway east?

Hi Mommies! anyone recently delivered at parkway east? How much is the delivery fee for normal? Who is your gynae? Thank you so much! #pregnancy #pleasehelp

Dr Natalie chua, her delivery fee is $2400-$2800. I paid 4k+ cash after medisave for natural with epidural - 4 bedder

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How to be a superwoman?

Any tips on how to be a working mom of a newborn baby and have time to take care of herself (exercise, eat healthy) and to show enough love and attention to the hubby and ensure that the family is in a good financial position all at the same time?

Super Mom

You’re asking for a lot from yourself:) I’m a working mum trying to balance all these too, and I’ve learnt a few things: 1) Focus on what you’re doing at that moment, giving it your 100%, then let it go once you’re done so that you can give your 100% to the next thing. For eg. At work, do well, never giving an excuse that you’re not as competent because you’re a mum. Let your colleagues and bosses see your value as a worker. But once you get home, don’t do any work while you’re spending time with your baby/husband. Focus on them 100%. 2. We all fail in achieving our goals sometimes. When that happens, cut yourself some slack. You’re already wonder woman for doing everything you’re doing. Sometimes I think I really suck (both at work and home), and then my colleagues come up to me and encourage me, saying that they have no idea how I’m managing such difficult work and also taking care of my family.. that they can’t even take care of themselves, let alone other people 😅. And my husband has also been wonderful in encouraging me. Sometimes, we need to see what we’re doing from other people’s eyes to realise that we’re actually doing okay. 3. Self care is unbelievably important. Spending time and taking care of our family is very important too, but showing ourselves love is essential to doing this for the long haul. This can come in many forms, eg. Sleeping, eating well, relaxing (whether shopping/massage/watching korean dramas, etc). 4. Don’t set unrealistic targets. Because as mothers, we try to hit all our targets, and disappointing ourselves sets up a vicious cycle that leads to sef loathing. Rather, take joy in all the little achievements, even if it’s something like managing to capture a good picture of you and baby after 50 shots 🤣 Motherhood is really tough but it’s such a joy too! I’m a working mother with 2 kids, and I’ve made many sacrifices for both family and my work at different points in time. But I have no regrets. And I think my kids love me as much as I love them. My husband too 😉 Protecting the marriage is the most important thing in parenthood, in my opinion. Because this forms the foundation of security for the children. All the best and may you find lots of joy and love in this journey!

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Child always says no .

My child is turing two and she says no to everything we asked her to do . Previously she will obey amd listen to instruction but now seems like she only want her way. She will become very upset , asking to carry and let her take random thing off the shelf if we do not comply . Somtimes we give in to her cus we are in a rush . Any other ideal way to cope ? I dont want screentime for my child as she will end up demanding And throwing tamtrum for more.

Super Mom

My child is turning 2 years old soon. Same as yours.. saying no to things. for e.g. milk, sleep or when playtime is over. We will interest her with something else to get her attention. Ask again when she's attentive and listening. It works for us. Stick to the routine even if she says no otherwise it will get worse.

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Hi Mummies, able to share your day schedule for your LO? My LO is 18mth. Not sure if I should make adjustment to her schedule as she recently attended school. 8am - milk 10am - breakfast 12pm - milk & nap 2pm - lunch 4pm - milk 6pm- dinner 9pm- milk & bed time Snacks & fruits given only after lunch/dinner

I have same schedule . But I give 2 short meals (fruits or snacks) in between main meals.

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Mil woes and advise needed.

I am currently housing my mil but constantly stressed due to parenting interference. She comments everything I do such as the bibs I bring to ifc, the type of corn or potatoes I buy… etc. I am a working mum and when I need to work in office, my mil will helpfully cooks dinner for my boy. The issue is, she feeds the boy and tell my son that “Your mama don’t cook as nice as me”. This incident traumatised me and I never allow her to cook for my son thereafter. I believe my mil is really bored at home and have nothing to do. She have no desire to work either. She will then pick on almost everything I do when it comes to parenting the kid. I am stressed by her comments till I have insomnia. What do you think I should do? It doesn’t seems like she have the means to get a house anytime soon and I do hope my husband really settle another house for my in laws when it’s time for MOP.

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let your husband know about your feelings and let him settle

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