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Hi mums. Is it true that we should let baby (mine currently 5wks) stay awake during the day so that they can sleep longer at night? MIL keep wanting to wake baby up whenever she’s over because each time she’s over, baby is sleeping.

Newborns does not know how to differentiate between morning and night yet. For now all they do is sleep majority of the time and may stay awake at night, the latter depends though not all newborn does. I will get really pissed when anyone try to awake my sleeping baby. Unless they help to put baby back to sleep or help to look after baby at night. Most times all these people just wants to hear baby's cries which is really super irritating then when baby cries, pass back to mummy 😒

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When do your toddler transit to one nap

My going to 14 mo toddler is taking two naps. Gg to ifc. They say should take only one nap at 1230 (and wake up at 3)...... they don’t accommodate each child nap time?

Developmentally, they not ready to drop nap to one until 18 mo. Why would the school insist on that?

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Any idea what to bring to do baby passport in Malaysia High Commissioner? Baby was born in SG and we are Singaporean PR. #advicepls #pleasehelp #1stimemom #firstbaby

Super Mom

Are u in SG? If you are, why do u need to go to Malaysia High Commissioner to do babies passport since baby was born in SG.

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pantang parents to be?

hi all. i am not so much of a believer when it comes to supersitution. but i came across an online post saying that we shouldnt buy baby products (etc. bed. stroller...) before baby is born. is it true and should i believe it. when it comes to baby i wanna play safe. but i am feeling really skeptical :/

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You should take the pantang or superstitious guides with a pinch of salt. Maybe you can place order first and request for delivery after the baby is born

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Is it normal to feel unhappy

So tiring to look after baby. Baby is 9 mo now, wakes at 6+, will demand for breakfast, and then 11 + is lunch, 6pm is dinner. So many meals to prep. And need to pump milk. Only me and husband. Husband poor hygiene, can’t trust him to wash bottles or prep food. No time play with baby, and somehow not capable enough to prepare good food for baby, always almost same ingredients, worried not feeding baby well... and letting him have enough good play...

Hi Mum, Kudos to your hardwork and patience. You are doing an amazing job. Have you thought about having a helper at home? It would really ease your work a bit

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Yesterday i just yelled at my 4 month old baby.. He was so cranky and clingy and I'm currently working from home.. i can't work when I've to keep carrying him.. he keeps screaming and crying that it makes me so frustrated and i yelled at him.. i know yelling at him makes things worst as he cried even worst.. but i really lost control.. thinking back I felt guilty as he was just a baby.. i could have be more patience with him.. just wanted to ask if the yelling could have traumatised him or affect any of his mental development? I really felt very bad about the whole thing..

I’m not sure about will it impact his mental development but yes it happens… same situation, but what I did is to talk firmly to my baby and let the baby know the current situation, if it doesn’t work and before I lost control…. I will put the baby in a safe spot and get out of the room and scream in the toilet for that 3-5 sec and dashed back. U might feel better…

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Post Natal Massage

I've been on the fence about having postnatal massage due to the current covid situation. The makcik who massaged me with my first is very good and I'm thinking about taking her again for my 2nd. My concern is that she travels islandwide via public transport from very early morning till night, and I'm not sure if she's vaccinated either. She's quite bo chap and will most likely be mask off when she massage. I'm not too sure how to approach her about this matter as I have elderly and other young kids in the house. Does anyone have same issues with deciding for postnatal massage? Or any recommendations for other masseuse who complies with covid regulations? I don't mean to sound so demanding, but I worry alot for my other household members who are vulnerable

Super Mom

As you should. I would be concern too. Try this contact i got frm my friend who delivered recently. https://www.mybidan.online/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw8eOLBhC1ARIsAOzx5cE075pW15TMbdAoylM5b2ZOQC9IheL_yOzBstQd8y_R3z3GFJg29ZsaAj-iEALw_wcB

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Hello mummies, wondering if anyone has done their confinement without a nanny? Can share your experiences? Thank you!

#confinement #advicepls #pregnancy

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me. did it with my hubs and helper who washes the clothes and all and for the food I ordered confinement food. my mum and dad would cook some confinement dishes for me too.

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Cant trust anyone to take care of my baby

I feel like I can’t trust anyone except my husband to take care of my baby. She’s 7 weeks old and loves to be held. I’m so easily agitated with the conventional methods and beliefs of others. I’m tired all the time and I can’t carry out housework like I used to. :( feeling down.. when will I have trust in others with my baby 🥺

Im also feeling easily agitated taking care of baby. Night feeds are taken care by my hubs but day time baby just dobt cooperate with mi. I dun hv time for housework n even food.. the moment i put her down she cries.. the moment i start eating or doing anything else, she cries!

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Any mummies use Prof Manesh Choolani as your gynae?

Prof Choolani is my gynae at NUH although he don’t have any package after 20/22wks, so far he have been very professional and nice! Anyone knows if he is pro natural or c sect? Also any mummies have c sec perform by him before? Or natural birth perform by him? Like how is his skill.. is the wound painful or is the wound big or small etc? I opt for natural but I’m not sure if I can deliver depending on the dilation. Please let me know your feedback and experience with him. Thank you very much!

When I searched I found below reviews. sharing with you . https://community.theasianparent.com/q/at-present-i-am-looking-to-switch-to-dr-mahesh-choolani-at-mt-e-novena-for-my-pregnancyany-thoughts-on-him/1452

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