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Hi mummies, my boy is turning 11mths soon and he usually drinks from bottle in the day and DL in the motn. However, few days back, he suddenly rejected my boobs and only takes bottle. I have been trying to get him back to latching but he refuses. I have tried offering him in the day, before his bottle and did skin to skin with him. Is he self-weaning already? 😭😭 is there still hope that he will go back to latching?

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Sounds like self weaning. If you really wants him to latch again, maybe you can engage a LC?

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At what age can we start to stop burping babies?

https://www.healthline.com/health/baby/when-do-you-stop-burping-a-baby

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How much did your baby weigh during birth? ?

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Pregnancy and breastfeeding

Im currently in my 1st trimester, and Im still breastfeeding my youngest. Is it ok? Im very exhausted with breastfeeding after 6yrs plus continuously. I was planning to stop breastfeeding before I know Im pregnant and now all my children are even more clingy to me #pregnancy #pleasehelp #advicepls

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Any mummies on Nexaplon implant?

Hi! Just want to know how long can someone go not having their period on this implant? Ive been on this implant for about 4 months and had my period last on 27 may. That was the last one and no period up till date.

I didn’t had period for 6 years

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21 month old food

Hi. My Baby girl is already 21 months old. But does not want to eat solid food for her mealtime. She prefers to eat the blended foods. Is there anyone who have the same issue? How do I handle this case? #advicepls

I try to introduce 1 new food into my baby blended food at 1 meal time.

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Baby Support Grant

Hi all, I’ve received the baby bonus cash gift notification from MSF however the support grant wasn’t mentioned in the mail. Will there be another mail regarding the support grant? Will the support grant be credited together with the cash gift?

That must be a bit confusing when you're already juggling so much with a new baby, so you're not alone in wondering about this. From what I know, the Baby Support Grant and the Baby Bonus Cash Gift can sometimes come with separate notifications, so it's worth giving the MSF Baby Bonus hotline a quick call to check on the status of your grant. They are usually quite helpful and can tell you exactly when to expect it lah.

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Hi momshie here... anyone experience here my 16mons baby havent say any words yet... only like ayiiieee or wooo wooo... Do i need to be worry? wat age your baby start talk? first time mom here pls i need help or advise...tia

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Pumping during work

Just curious did you inform your superior and colleagues that you need to pump? I only informed my manager and then when I went to take break to pump and come back, one colleague asked me where I went with the tone that I went off to slack. Not obliged to tell her and don’t feel the need to as I’m quite a low key person. Or should I just inform so at least they know I’m not slacking off?

Ya. I do tell my boss im going to pump.. even until now.. but sometimes i walk away wif my laptop n pump then they know alr..

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MIL - why are they being so difficult

I’m a FTM to a healthy 4 months old baby boy. I just want to rant about my experience living with my MIL. From the start of my pregnancy, I can tell that she don’t care one bit. She never mentioned anything or asked anything about the baby. Eg how’s baby is doing? Is baby growing well etc NEVER. Once I was admitted to the hospital for abdominal pains during my pregnancy but got discharged the next day, i got back home and instead of asking how me and the baby were doing she said “aiya im also not feeling well.” Also another example at 37 weeks I was +covid and was admitted again for a week and not even once that she even called to asked how baby and i were doing. But here comes the most annoying part, once I gave birth, my husb and I brought our baby back home, she’s the one who so yaya papaya wants to carry the baby, wants to do this wants to do that. There’s so many hurtful things that happened to me during this 4 months but one of the most unforgettable moment was when she secretly clipped my baby’s fingernails till it bleed while i was at work and when I confronted her about it, she was so unhappy and didnt talk to me at all and only cooks for the rest of the family including my husband except for me. It’s not that i’m hard up about her cooking but I feel like this is unnecessary. I stood up for my baby who must be crying like hell the whole time shes trying to cut his fingernails and I wasnt around. If anything i should be the one offended because this is my baby! I gave birth to him and she should respect me as my baby’s mother. She always have this mindset that she’s the only want that can calm my baby and that she has taken care of her own kids so she knows better than i am. I dont care if she has 10 or 100 kids of her own but this is my son so everything will be done my way. Why do MIL always have to make things difficult

You can consider to move back to your parents place or send your baby to infant care. Don’t need to see her mood and put up with her :) Don’t care about her lah. Just treat her as transparent.

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