Confinement lady or mom's help?
I'm considering whether there's a need to hire a confinement lady. Basically I want to take the first mth to really learn from someone experienced on taking care of baby and breastfeed etc, and help to cook proper meals as well. I believe my mom is more than willing to be around during the first few months after birth to help out in any way i ask. However my mom's not an experienced cook nor did she tk care of any grandchildren before, so I feel half hearted to have her to cook confinement recipes, do marketing, washing and all while caring for baby all by herself. Nor will she be staying overnight, would be so tiring! (I know there's also an option of ordering tingkats, I'm open to that too!) Was wondering if anyone has hired confinement lady before and at the same time have mom's extra pair of hands to help out at home? Ideally to also learn from confinement lady and 2nd mth onwards mom could help out further! Would love to hear your experiences or suggestions! #advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby
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Hi mommies! We started off with TW for my 13mo LO and we are in the midst of trying BLW now. We have been feeding her porridge, brown rice/oatmeal cereal and mashed avocado previously, so she hasn't really learned how to chew yet. She does show excitement when she sees the food tray and is willing to pick up the food and eat, but she eats very little. We will top up with FM after that as I'm afraid she will be hungry. Any mommies been through this? Any advice or encouragement would be greatly appreciated! #advicepls #1stimemom
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2 nights ago my baby refuses to drink milk. Everytime the milk bottle was placed in his mouth, he cries. His last feed was 7pm, so the next feed was supposedly 10pm. My Mum assisted but baby wouldn't stop crying. He didn't even finish the milk. And he cried the whole night and I wonder what's wrong. My parents carried him into their room and at 4.30am, they were exhausted and knocked on my bedroom door to ask for help. That night I made like 3 bottles of milk and he rejected them all. #moneygonedownthedrain #advicepls #firstbaby #1stimemom #whatsgoingon
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Period just came or implantation bleeding?
I’m not sure if my husband has precum when we had sex weeks ago and my period just came (after 4 days late). A lot of pms symptoms similar to implantation bleeding. How do I know if it’s period blood or implantation? I used HPT to test for past few days and they are all negative. #advicepls
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