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When is it considered too late to have kids?

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i would say yes. never too late. but preferably not later than 40. usually as age increases, risk increase. my mum gave birth to me at 40. it nearly took her life.

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A year ago I started to join sahm group & found like minded mommies around & I feel good getting to know more people rather than depressing being sahm. As times goes, our toddler are going to preschool. I felt that the moms are completing whose kid are smarter, & which prestigious preschool, what enrichment they attend. I felt pressure becos I think that's not the goal for being in a support group. Someone pls advise me should I leave the group or just remain silent after..

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When do I stop swaddling my baby?

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4months i stopped

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Dear mummies, how do your slim down after delivery? Im in my mid twenties yet i have difficulty in slimming down. Already pp going 4mths and my tum tum still looks like when i was in my 5mth pregnancy. Last week met up with husband's friend as his wife just delivered, she already slim back to her previous size and even slimmer. Ok yes, she is petite and in her size "xs" or "s" but the thing is, they kind of laughed at me being "auntie" still looked chubby. "Nvm lo, since you already married still got a child, its ok to be fat la, hahaha" ????? it is so hurting! Everyday i only eat breakfast(about 11am after settling Lo to slp) and late lunch(i ate at about 4-5pm so i will skip dinner) i do planking, jumping jacks, slow jog(30min). Nothing seem to help. My weight remains the same. I think my problem is even i do those exercise, i don really sweat or didnt even sweat at all. Any other idea that i can slim down especially my arms and tum? Thanks ?????? Please help me!!!

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Breastfeeding helps - but if you're breastfeeding, don't starve yourself as you need the nutrients to provide milk for your baby. If you're not breastfeeding, be patient. Your body is still adjusting, hormones are still going haywire. In time you'll bounce back to your pre-pregnancy body. But in the meantime, just think about portions when you eat - eat enough to give you the nutrients your body needs.

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Anyone delivering with Dr Phua Soo Mear?

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Mummies how do u cope with husband not with u always + breastfeeding newborn + toddler? Basically mostly all by yourself. I'm stressed up.

Try looking for support groups. What about friends?

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Wonder if any of the mothers had the same experience as me? I left my job to take care of my son full time since he was born 9 mths ago. I am more than willing despite being a pretty demanding role as a mother. Lack of slp... cranky child...making lots of noises or even crying etc etc..feeling helpless,not knowing what the LO want. Not forgetting when our patience r put to test almost every single day. It's fine. We as mother will b btr as days goes as we learn...and gain more experience in handling them but...I got a problem here that breaks my heart and I wonder everyday if it's abt me. I thought by right when u r the one taking care spending all the time wit him...u shd b his closest right? I mean...he would look for u..stick to u..knowing u r his MOTHER. No,my son didn't behave so. I'm currently staying at mum's pl and he always look for my mum (grandma) more than me. He is always excited when she comes hm. She can calm him down cos he listen to her rather than me. In short,she's like his mother more than me. I'm not jealous but over the time..I do feel hurt tht I'm not the one that's able to settle him down when I'm the mum.Been telling my husband our son dun seem to like me.Feel so useless...:( Anyone had the same experience?

Try to spend more quality time with him. Babies don't know and understand the sacrifices we made give him sometime. Don't worry too much about it. He will come back to you again and by then you maybe screaming for help.

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What item will you keep from your first born and pass on to second baby ? Other than clothes anything else ? What about milkbottle etc ? Do you keep or throw..

I kept my swaddles, some toys and clothes. Everything else was new for hygiene purpose.

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Any mummies is having the same problem like I do? Basically Husband don't really help out in housework. No initiative. There's this time where i have to bathe and comfort LO through shower screen. But she kept crying and my husband never even come in the room and take a look. In the end, my LO cried till she vomit and fell asleep. And her daddy was all along outside pressing his phone and watching tv and still got the cheek to say that if i need help, i open my mouth to ask. Wow. Even housework i do 99.9%. When i ask for his help, he will say wait... In the end, nothing is done. Im really really very tired. Tired of all these nonsense. I also need rest, I'm a human too. Not because I'm a woman and a mummy means i have to do all these and tolerate all the nonsense.

I'll hit the roof of my husband was in the phone and kids cry till sleep. Its bedtime. Kids should be out to bed with love not saddness.

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Is it ok to keep changing different milk bottle teats?

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