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Lazy husb beyond repair?

We have been using reusable masks for 2 years now and not even once has my husb ever washed his own mask. He just leaves it together with the other dirty masks and i will soak and wash them all. When i forget, it could even end up soaking overnight. Is this normal or is he just plain lazy?

Maybe he is too tired to mind this little tasks by himself. Maybe recommendes disposabke mask will be good. Just an opinion

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Baby's surname for unwed couple

Hello, my bf and I are not married yet and I would like to know if I can still put baby's surname as his and also bf's name as father in baby's birth cert? Thanks!

Super Mom

Yes I think you can :)

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Emergency/Rescue cerclage in Singapore

This is a misfortunate for us that we lost our baby at week 17 after 5 years of marriage and both of us are in mid 38 and we are still trying to deal with it. Me wife had a severe cramping at week 17 and we rushed to KK A&E. After 1 hour waiting, the doctor examined her and said that unfortunately her cervix opened and the baby is being pushed out and was told that she is undergoing inevitable miscarriage. We both cried and she along with the physical pain, had to go through the mental pain of losing our baby. Later she was admitted in the ward and I was with her the whole time of admission (had to take ward A as she wants me to be with her), and when asked the doctor, she said it could be multiple reasons and next time when she gets pregnant we will tie the uterus (cerclage). But on asking how much the cervix got opened, the doctor said the A&E didn't record it but it could have been (assumption) that it is in state of not able to stitch it. I am still thinking about it and want to know 1. does anybody done rescue/emergency cerclage in singapore that is push the baby back and tie the cerclage, if so what was your dilation and week in such a circumstance 2. Why the A&E didn't mention the length of opening in the cervix in their report and sinply said nothing could have been done. Can readers advice whether they underwent a similar procedure and what your thoughts on it. Appreciate your response and your time.

Super Mom

Hi there, I can’t say I understand the frustration you must be going through - but I can certainly empathise. Not knowing how or what went wrong after the loss of your baby can leave a gaping wound for many parents. Wondering if you could: a) go back to the hospital and ask for an explanation 2) ask your doctor to help you understand what really happened - ask enough questions to help you achieve a bit of closure The road to healing may be long but I’ve heard of many rainbow baby stories. This can and will only make you stronger as a couple. I honestly think everything happens for a reason and tho we may not know it now, we will be given answers in good time. My heart goes out to you and your wife. Take care.

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What is the most memorable lesson that you have learnt from your father?

Influencer của TAP

I can do anything that I set my mind to do and that being independent has a lot of merit

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COVID-19 amidst pregnancy

Feeling quite low after knowing that my colleagues met a COVID-19 patient during our split-team shift. Because of the interaction, MOH has taken my details (pending next course of action). Hopefully everything turns out positively. As a frontline worker, the worst case scenario would be that I contacted COVID-19. Both wife and I have vaccinated, so not too concerned about us getting COVID-19, but I am definitely worried about the elder folks at our home and the ongoing pregnancy at the 10th week (not sure how COVID will affect pregnancy). Just finding an avenue to vent out the worry I have for wifey's pregnancy (this 10 weeks has not been easy for her). Also trying to find support from front-line dads and moms who have faced or might be facing similar situations.

Super Mom

Hey Billy, I may not be a frontliner but I feel your frustration. I hope that baby will be safe and sound and that you and your wife will have a smooth pregnancy journey. 🙏🏻

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What bite in this?

Appears big , swollen. LO does not complain of itchy but i think slight pain. How to make it better?

What bite in this?

Super Mom

Hi mommy, though it might not be itchy. But it’s best to bring your baby to a doctor. Hope she’s feeling better. 🥰

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HELP! Mummy is shagged.

Why my 5 months old baby is active in the middle of the night? He will wake up every an hour for milk or wants to talk/ play. He had nap for an hour in daytime. What can I do?

is he undergoing some developmental leaps like learning new skills? also I think 1 hour nap for a 5 month old could be a little too little. 5 months old should be on a 3-nap schedule. observe his wake time, he might be too overtired, hence affecting his night sleep.

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Birthday boy - 2 years old

How do you celebrate your kids birthday during these restricted times? Any suggestions

Birthday boy - 2 years old

only with family members

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Child starts yawning at the beginning of school work

My son is also same. I found out the reason .he was not interested with lessons

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Confinement nanny cancelled :(

I initially arranged for a confinement nanny through an agency for my first child. But the nanny they had in plan for me last minute had to go back to Malaysia and the agency isn’t able to find me a replacement. They just decided to refund the full amount that I paid. And I’m now left with few options since both parents / families aren’t here with us physically. I was thinking of managing it on my own, maybe getting confinement food delivery, while my husband helps out with the rest of house work & taking turns to take care of the baby. Any tips for first time parents through the first month? For baby & mommy.

I rem there’s a fb group that helps mummies find CL and CL to find mummies (CL are free lance). If you are still thinking of engaging CL.

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