Birthclub: August 2023

Hi my baby was in 90th percentile when he’s 1 & 2 months old. 3 months onwards he’s been drinking very little and didn’t gain much weight. He’s coming to 4 months old now and he’s now around 50-75th percentile. Wondering any mummies experience the same situation whereby baby not gaining weight? His weight has been the same for 1 month from 3 months onwards, is that ok? Baby used to be able to drink up to 1100ml per day. Now average he drink only 450-580ml. He’s on both bm and formula #firsttimemom #firstmom #advicepls

Though having help to take of baby is good. But sometimes may have confict as everyone have different thinking towards taking care of baby. Mil think baby is like this. Fil thinks baby is like this. Should i follow their way to take care of baby to prevent conflict? Since they want to take care of the baby cause the first grandson. Will they think i not responsible for my lo?. I just dont want to conflict and so dont want give suggestion.

Being mum is really tiring and stressful. I am feeling tired but cannot sleep as waiting for my lo to wake up for milk. How i wish i can sleep anytime anywhere. No need to worry about when my lo wake up. Do you have this problem?

My baby is 3.5months now. My hubby say he can take care alone on monday and friday. And can send me to work and off work along with baby. Tue wed thur baby at grandparents place. But i still feel worried. And they dont want to send to infant care. Plus grandparents age 70. Sometime i asked myself was it a right choice to have kids. #firsttimemom #randomtalk

As a first time mom. Alot of things is new to me. I keep worrying about how to take care of my lo as he grow up. What can i do to ease this worry and insecurity to enjoy motherhood. Worrying which month need to do what. Alot qns in my head.

Can i know the estimate expenses for baby per month ? So i know roughly how much to put aside.

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We just changed formula from Nan Optipro (blue tin)to Nan Supreme HA (Gold tin). She used to poop at least once per day. (1) Should I continue with Nan Supreme HA or switch back to Nan Optipro? (2) She has slightly bloated stomach, is it due to gas? (3) She is usually fed 80ml every 3 hours to now 90ml every 2hour. Newborn is 13 days old. #FTM #advicepls #pleasehelp #firstbaby Can anyone advise please?

Can I ask the temperature of water that is use to mix with formula milk?I know is lukewarm water but keen to know the range.Coz my nanny will use slightly hotter temperature water to mix with formula milk coz she said that if the milk will get cold easily but my question won't it kill the nutrients

Anyone knows what brand of baby soap mount E orchard is using for showering babies? Hahaha. My baby was born in Aug 2023 and I’m trying to find the same body soap as it smells very good.