Birthclub: Februari 2024

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Anak Umur 1tahun

Assalam Korang Nak Tanya Ank Sy Dah Sebulan MCM Taknk MKN dan Tak NAK hisap Susu, Nak Susu Pom Tak Respon, 4jam Sekali SY Bg 5Oz, Tu Pom Dia Taknak, Tapi Sy Suap Jugak ABES dia Hisap, Korang Ada Tak Pengalaman Mcm Sy, Dia Sehat Je.. Nak Susu XRespon Pom Lapar Ke Ape, Klu 5jam Xbg, 5jam La Tak Hisap, Skrg Anak Sy Umur Setahun Prkmbngn Dia Oke Sume dah 10 Word Boleh Sebut, simple Instruction Pom Dh Bnyk Fhm... Ade X Yg Ada Pengalaman Mcm Sy.. 😭

Aww mama, I can hear how worried you are, but it sounds like your little one is actually doing really well development-wise if he's hitting those milestones! A few of us mums have had babies go through phases like this around 12 months where they're just not as interested in milk, sometimes it's because they're exploring solids more, sometimes it's just a phase. That said, since he's been like this for a month already and not responding to hunger cues the usual way, I'd really suggest checking in with your pediatrician just to rule out anything like reflux, sensory stuff, or if there's a feeding preference we can work with, better to be sure, kan? In the meantime, keep offering without pressure, and maybe try different bottle teats or temperatures to see if that helps, but doc can guide you best on this one. You're doing a good job by keeping at it, mama!

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Berpantang rumah mertua

Hai semua. Mintak pendapat. Sy first newborn. Masih tak tahu nak berpantang dekat mana. Sy n husband stay dkt selangor, dekat dgn keluarga husband. Family sy pulak dkt johor. Suami suruh pantang rumah mak dia sebab dia tak nak jauh dgn sy n baby. Cuti husband pun seminggu je. Sy plan nak berpantang dengan mak sy sebab ini first newborn n first cucu mak sy. Tapi mak sy sakit (pre-parkinson) n sy buat backup plan nak hire CL. So dekat situ mcm dah takde masalah. Tapi suami tetap nk sy stay selangor n berpantang rumah mak dia dulu then selebihnya dia yg jaga sendiri. And rumah kami actually tinggi jugak tingkat 5 takde lift sebab tu husband suruh berpantang rumah mak dia dulu. Rumah mak dia pulak ada 3org lelaki bujang. Jadi sekarang sy berbelah bahagi nk berpantang rumah siapa. Boleh ibu2 bagi cadangan? #firstbaby #firstmom

byk kan org akan berpantang rumah family sendiri sis, sbb kita da selesa ,nak minta tolong itu ini pun tak segan sama. lagipun awak pun akan upah CL so takpa , takda menyusahkan family nanti. tapi tuh la husband pula mcm tuh, dia kena fikir keselesaan wife dia, tak boleh fikir jauh, sbb time pantang mmg emosi tak berapa stabil, nak handle baby , diri sendiri sakit lagi. maybe awak kena discuss betul2x n tekankan ,lagipun kalau pantang rumah fil , aurat pula nak kena jaga.

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Suami please ringankn tgn bantu isteri

X tau laa nak buat mcm mna lg🫠🫠kita penat sgt asyik ckp benda yg sama je hari2 tpi buat juga. Sy suri rumah & 24jm mmg kat rumah layan ank je, nak kluar pun g beli brg rumah,, nak lepak hmm jauh sekali sbab hati&fikirn fikir psal rumah & ank. Klu sebulan tu x keluar, sebulan tulaa terperap je kat rumah, sbab kdg laki dah beli awl2 brg rumah. Bila sy bosan sy nak ajk laki kluar jln2 kat pantai ke, ada je alasan dia🫠🫠tpi dia hujung mnggu g memancing bole pulak, bila kita tegur dia ckp gini pula kat kita "korang prmpuan mana fhm hobi lelaki ni mcm mna" lahaiii sy pun minat sgt memancing, time bujang pun slalu juga g mmncing cuma smnjak ada ank sy kurangkn smua aktiviti & fokus kat ank tpi suami x leh buat mcm tu😌 Sebulan laki bgi rm500 utk sy. Yes 500 tu mmg byk tpi kn 500 tu sikit pun sy x guna utk keperluan sndri. 500 tulaa sy guna utk beli brg dapur, keperluan ank & suami. 500 habis gitu jee utk beli keperluan. Time nak beli pun mmg kluar sma2 spya laki pun nmpk laa total hrga brg. Bila dah msuk awl bulan bole pula laki tnya klu masih ada baki duit, bila kita bagitau baki tgl gini2 dia ckp kita ni membazir cuba laa simpan sikit duit🤧🤧lahaiii pulak slh sy kat mana Barang online. Brg keperluan lain sy beli kat shopee/tiktok cthnya mcm baju ank & pampers. Sblm beli sy mmg akn bagitau laki yg sy nak beli ni siap tunjuk kat dia lg, apa2 sy beli sy akn bagitau sbab x nak laa kita d 'COP' membazir lg. Hmmm rupanya laki sy dlm diam order brg online x bagitau smpai 4/5 parcel dtg kat rumah. Bila kita mrh & ckp knpa x bagitau dia cuma jwb "ni semua utk motor& kereta awk mna tau"😭😭sy nak beli baju utk diri sndri pun bfikir lg nak checkout atau x ni laki selamba je beli x bagitau. Kita x mrh cuma at least bagitau kn okay, bkn nak mengongkong laki ye tpi sy dah bgitau tiap kali gaji klu nak beli apa2 utk kereta/motor beli sebulan sekali bkn nak beli terus spya dpt mnyimpan. Hmm ni lg kdg buat sy geram. Cth hari ni sy nak ajk laki kluar g diy/eco tgk2 brg tpi laki x nak ckp nti beli brg bkn guna pun. Esoknya laki ckp sy turun jap nak g buang smpah, dekat sejam laki x smpai lg bila tgk location dia g diy🤧🤧Smpai kat rumah sy tnya napa x ajk kluar, dia ckp nak bwa korang buat dia lmbat jdi dia g laa sorang2 spya dpt tgk brg dgn tenang. Sbnrnya kita nak kluar utk hilangkn bosan walaupun beli/x beli brg. Balik rumah bantu kjap & main phone. Sy pling x suka bila sy ckp kat laki tlg jaga ank kjap sy nak msak/kemas rumah. Dia jaga tpi sambil thk phone tgk video, ank kluar dri bilik pun dia x prasan weii. Sbab tu sy takut nak tgglkn ank & srh laki jaga. Kmi ni dah laa tggl rumah flat tingkat 4😭😭ank pula tiap kli kluar msti dia akn g dapur. Sy pun penat juga cuma trpksa kuat utk urus rumah.🥴🥴sy hari2 awl bgun, lewat tido kdg tido x cukup tpi ttap gagahkn diri utk urus rumah. Haritu hujung mnggu kat tmpt krja laki ada event awl pagi 7am. 6stgh laki dah gerak, tmpt krja x lah jauh sgt klu naik motor 5minit je dah smpai. Event tu hbis 9am, laki blik sarapan & nak kluar g cari kedai pancing & terus g memancing. Balik rumah 7pm, bila dah smpai rumah dia mkn & tido😭😭kita ni brhrp hujung mnggu dptla laki tlg2 kat rumah, dahlaa dri pagi ke mlm sy urus ank sorang2 dia smpai kat rumah tido alasan penat😌😌mna x penat sndri x nak rest. Sy preg ank kedua, ank first czer. Yg pnah czer msti tau kn kdg sakit kat bhgian perut & tulang blkg. Sy kerap sesak nafas, pening kepala & kdg lemas satu bdn nak bdiri pun x larat tpi sbab nak urus ank sy kuatkn diri. Laki sakit tekak & lenguh bdn balik nak ckp "aduh sakitnya, x larat laa bdn sy nak rehat la" kita ni yg rasa mcm separuh nyawa dah trpksa kuat pdhl sy pun betul2 x larat. Panjang sgt sy cakap ni😆😆huhhh baru lega sikit hati dpt keluarkn semua, maaf yaa klu statement sy ni ada yg buat org terasa sy cuma nak meluah🤍🤍🤍🤍Tq tau yg sudi baca, semoga kita sentiasa kuat #Strongmom #semangat

Sayang, first thing, please go see your doctor about the breathlessness, dizziness and weakness lah, especially since you're pregnant with number two. Czer recovery takes time and your body needs proper rest, bukan digenthak macam tu. The physical stuff tu serious, so get that checked out okay. Now about your husband, honestly a few of us mums here have been in similar situations, and one thing we realised is sometimes our husbands don't see what we actually do because we make it look so easy, even when we're running on fumes. Kena communicate differently lah, not just during geram moments, maybe pick a calm time and lay out exactly what the day looks like (morning routine, meals, laundry, childcare, shopping, everything), so he actually sees the load. About the money thing, the inconsistency is frustrating for sure, you're budgeting down to the ringgit for household stuff while he orders without telling you, that's not fair. And him going out to fish for the whole day on weekend when you're solo parenting and pregnant? That's not okay either. You're not being controlling asking him to inform you or help properly, you're asking for a partner. Maybe get him to read something about what pregnancy second time around actually feels like, or consider a proper sit-down conversation (or even counselling) where he hears you're not complaining, you're asking him to step up as you literally cannot keep doing this alone. You deserve better than this, mama. Stay strong, tapi please jaga diri yourself first.

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Minum air gula 3 kali

Siapa ada pglmn kena mnum air gula 3 kali? 😆😆Mnum kali pertama bacaan hampir tinggi sikit je lg, mula2 nurse bagitau Dr srh buat bsp je sbab hmpir tinggi tpi Dr srh mnum kli kedua. Mnum kli kedua pula bacaan rendah, nurse tnya klu sy ada muntah tpi mmg sy x muntah lepastu Dr srh repeat mnum kli ketiga😆😆 next week mnum kli ketiga, huhhh penat sgt nak menahan mnum air gula hrp results okay laa lepastu😆😆 #firstmom #firstmom #fypviralシ#airgula

Aiyooo I feel for you, mama! A few of us at the playground went through the same glucose test drama, one friend also kena repeat twice because first reading borderline, second one low, so frustrating lah when doctor wants to be thorough but you're already so tired of the sweet drink. The good news is third time usually gives clearer picture, so hopefully next week results come back perfect and you can finally relax about it! Fingers crossed for you, those three rounds are really no joke mentally even if physically it's just a drink.

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Pregnant anak kedua

Ank first sy teruk bahagian alahan. Skg ni tgh preg ank kedua rasanya mcm2 sakit yg dtg😆alahan x da, cuma sakit kat bahagian tulang belakang, belakng pnggung & tiap kali sakit tu dtg dia akn serang smpai kat kepala & sy rasa sesak nafas. Normal ke bgtu? Ada yg pnah alami x mcm sy?😊 #mohonbantujawabbunda #mohonbantujawabbunda #Needadvice #Sharingdong_Bund #firstmom #firstmom #sharing #bantujawab #bantujawab

Aiyah, pregnancy sure is different setiap kali! A few of us mums discussed this before, the back pain radiating up to the head and shortness of breath can happen, especially when baby's position puts pressure on nerves and your lungs, tapi since you're also feeling it in your chest area and the breathlessness is quite prominent, better check with your doctor or midwife just to be safe, okay? Could be normal pregnancy stuff or could be something they need to monitor, better don't take chances lah, especially when it's affecting your breathing. Hang in there, mama, second pregnancy is definitely a different journey!

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Vitamin tambah berat badan

Salam ibu ibu, sapa pernah bagi anak makan vitamin untuk tambah berat badan anak? Function tak? Anak saya dh setahun sebulan berat masih 9kg, lepas kena hfmd dgn muntah cirit haritu turun 2kg. Lepastu susah dah nak makan. Vitamin apa yg bagus boleh bg cadangan? #firstmom

wsalam ank kita sebaya, berat pun sama...last week cirit dkt seminggu sbb try tukar fm. bg sy xperlu vitamin as long as bmi dia okay. just fokus balik pemakanan harian semula

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Bayi 13 bulan x jalan

Hi mommies Nak Tanya normal.ke baby 13 bulan belum jalan #firstmom

hai. its normal...tp parents kena ambil inisiatif utk guide ank bjalan...start dari berdiri, jalan berpaut pd dinding, sofa, push walker. lama2 bby akn dpt confident utk melangkah sendiri. by 18mth if masih xblh jalan, perlu jumpa therapist.

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Termarah ank tnpa sngaja

Jdi seorang ibu bknlaa hal yg mudah🥹🥹Sy full suri rumah kdg ter'emosi sbab ank byk ragam. Pnah haritu sy sdg cuci kain & jemur ank nangis2 nak mnta dukung, sy cepat2 jemur kain & g tmpt ank tpi ank ttap nangis sy rasa geram sgt masatu & sy letak ank kat lantai mrh & tolak (tolak mnja je ya bkn tolak smpai jatuh, ank setahun). Lepas bbrpa mnit sy rasa lega sy peluk kat ank 🥹🥹 Suami kdg mlm krja, jdi mlm time tido ngan ank ada masa ank nangis2 sy cuba dodoikn ttap juga nangis, sy dah lah penat+ngantu sy tarik ank & cubit (cubit x kuat ya) ank tmbh nangis sy sedar & terus peluk 😭😭 Sy kdg fikir sy ada masalah mental ke cepat sgt stress😭😭bila cerita kat husb, dia cuma jwb biasala tu sy pun kdg ada masa jga mrh ank. Tpi tgk husb x da laa mcm sy smpai nak pukul🥹🥹 Sy rasa mcm jdi ibu yg x guna, ibu yg jahat. Kalau husb time tu kat rumah dia dah tau bila sy mrh kat ank, dia cepat2 ambil ank & bawa kat ruang tamu utk main sama2. Utk ibu2 yg pnah alami mcm sy korang ada x tips spya kita x cepat pukul ank atau burnout😭😭 #Needadvice #Needadvice #firstmom #firstmom #sharing #Sharingdong_Bund #fypviralシ #mentalbreakdown #burnout

Sbb sis pnt jd mcm tu. Stiap hari sblm tdur & lepas bngun, tgk muka anak lama2, pgang tgn dia. Slalu ingt yg anak masih kecil, masih sdg blajar urus emosi, klu ada apa2 ibu la yg anak akan cari. Frst & last line of defense utk anak, jd ingt spya xyah marah2. Klu x, nti ank nak luah dkt siapakn. 1 lg, klu tgh ambil perancang, ni pn blh buat jd mood swing. Next time klu rsa mau marah lg, terus senyum je. Jgn buat expression marah/stress. Semoga sis d berikn kekuatan, x marag2, x stress2.

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Gigi anak belum tumbuh umur dah msuk setahun

Normal ke ank dah setahun blm kluar gigi?. Dri taun lepas (Dec) dah ada tnda kat gusi tpi smpai skg blm kluar lg, ank lelaki & sy bersalin czer. #Needadvice #Needadvice #firstmom #firstmom #bantujawab #mohonbantujawabbunda #Sharingdong_Bund #1sttimemom #1sttimemom #sharing #anak1st

Normal sis. Red flag milestone is when your kid reach 18 months (1y6m) with no first tooth eruption.

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Perangcg implant

Ada x yg ambil prncg implant kat sini? Bole x share pglmn mommy psg implant 😆😆sy tgk kat video mcm seram sgt . Oh ya lepas implant tu dah exp, Dr akn kluar kn mcm mna ya? #Needadvice #Needadvice #firstmom #firstmom #bantujawab #mohonbantujawabbunda #sharing #Sharingdong_Bund

Aiyoo I totally get it, yang first time memang scary looking at those videos! A few of us mums in my circle tried the implant, honestly the insertion itself is quick, maybe 5-10 minutes, painkiller injection numbing gila so you don't feel much, just a bit of pressure and tingling je. Lepas tu ada some bruising and mild aching for a day or two, but nothing drama. When it expires (usually 3 years), doctor just extract it the same way, quick procedure, local anesthetic, done! Kang you'll feel a bit sore but fine by next day. Best talk to your gynae about the exact details and timeline for your situation ya, tapi honestly after the first one, most of us are chill about doing it again!

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