Hubby or LIP? I don't know what the dynamics are with your relationship but the way I see it, based sa kwento mo, it's either stressed siya sa work kasi as you said WFH siya. But if he's like that even to his own mother, not only is he immature, but he is not respectful. Siyempre baby niya yun he will take care of the baby. Talk to him about it and be objective in stating that you need emotional support as a partner as well. If you don't feel that he's with you in your journey as a mother better not be with him nalang. Lalo na di pa naman kayo kasal. You have a iob and nakaleave ka pa naman. If you can, go home to your family where you are supported emotionally din. Being na only child is not a license to act like that. Kakapanganak mo palang ganyan na siya.