usually i will sleep first because once he comes home from work, we will spend time eating together while watching show together or sometimes we watch a movie. then once all that is done, he will help me with whatever chores i didnt manage to do while i head to bed. then he will take the time to play his game. sometimes we will just lay in bed and talk until we fall asleep together. i think it's okay as long as you dont have unresolved issues with each other.
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