Am I Wrong

Hi Mummy, thank you for sharing your story. It's totally normal that you feel upset when your husband is evidently looking at another girl. Did this happen a lot of times? Or is this the first one? What I think could be improved is how you reacted to it? If you spanked him publicly, that must be humiliating for him. But if not, it still not a good thing to do. Do not ever resolve to something physical whenever you wanna fix problems with your husband. Always come from a place of love, no matter how hurt you are. Maybe say that: "you know I was hurt when you do this. I feel like you've insulted me". You'll notice that your husband will match your tone - calm and reassuring. I know it must've felt bad for you. But yeah, always remember that there's always a better way to confront problems like these. Hope you feel better soon.

I think it depends on how you look at it. Human’s nature, we will all look at beautiful things. Back then, I do catch my husband looking at girls, I do get mad and stopped talking. I do check out guys and girls as well(fashion), so I just discuss with him openly or tell him to look, eventually it became something so normal between us so we will talk/laugh about it together (if we find some funny fashions.) For my case, whenever I see someone dressing revealingly, I’ll ask my husband to check it out and he’ll be like “what’s wrong with her, can you stop looking at other people?” You see, the more you get affected, the more it backfires. Maybe if you don’t get bothered about it too much, he’ll probably find no joy in it anymore..?

Cant comment on this much but it boils down to sensitivity also. Whether its just being overly sensitive or so. And i agree with the other comment that spanking your hb in public is not a good thing to do. They have their pride, he probably felt humiliated.