Friends who really care about your safety wouldn’t press you in the first place. Nothing is more important than my baby (whether baby is in me or out). If they feel that because you rejected their gathering request hence they stopped asking you out, so be it then… (above is just my POV) 😄 I asked those who wants to visit my baby to do ART back then when I just gave birth, pretty much everyone complied. Passed the ART before they see baby. No complaints.
Let them know you’re not up for a gathering at the moment due to other commitments or you’re not feeling too well and would like to skip this session. Maybe when things are more stabilised and you’re ready to let them know, you can schedule the next meet up. Probably in a smaller group. 🙈
That’s nice. Thanks for the suggestion. Sounds like a good reply I can try if they pressure me again.
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