Whose husband flare up and throw temper when he is not feeling well, as though you(wife) causes him to fall sick. Impatient, unhappy about this and that, throw temper at LO, i don feel that we have anything to do with him falling sick. Plus, he woke me up while im sleeping and said he is planning for family trip. What is important that he cant discuss when i am awake? He told me that he plans for the particular day trip from 10am-5pm, i asked why he planned this way, he flare up and said don need me to get involved anymore. He will plan and i shall follow. I mean seriously, he woke me up insisted in planning and yet telling me such nonsense. Furthermore he scolded me for not contributing and helping him to plan.

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Maybe you can try talking to him about it? My hubby tends to flare up easily when he does not get enough sleep. There was once when we were on a holiday and he kept getting angry with the kids over super trivial things like spilling of water bottle etc. It was all because he did not manage to get much sleep on the flight the day before. I flared up too and thrashed it out with him. He was stumped but things got better after. Sometimes they do not realized how their behavior is affecting us if we do not tell them in the face.

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