Whenever we visit my Husband's parents. My mom in law always took control of my son. She feed him, napping, etc. It seems like i don't have permission to touch my own son. I know she might missed her grandson but i feel powerless. What should i do?

if it is few times a week..let her do it lah. they dont see the kids often, close both eyes & ears. my in laws also do things i dont like but u think ah...they only see my kids once a week for few hrs. they will just pamper them. if today u r in their position and yr daughter in law stop u....u also wont be happy right