Whenever we visit my Husband's parents. My mom in law always took control of my son. She feed him, napping, etc. It seems like i don't have permission to touch my own son. I know she might missed her grandson but i feel powerless. What should i do?

I would go and take a rest or do my own stuffs! Throw to her! anw, it's the only day she see the grandchild. Intervene only when she can't seems to handle but nt immediately. Usu I would wait for abt 30mins -1hr before I go and take over if the baby keeps whining and crying.