You have the most terrible mil on earth. From what you've described your husband tends to listen to others rather than have his own mindset. You need to ask him what does he really want and he need to make his decision on the spot. If you are not his answer then divorce him, it's the 21st century now, moms win the children custody. Tell your mil that her brain should stop being so stupid. No reason for a woman to give birth for nothing, you need to fight for your kids no matter what. And make a police report, apply for PPO (personal protection order) meaning that your husband cannot lay another finger on you. If anything happens to you even if he's not to blame(like scrap your knee, or teeny injury somewhere) the police will get to him first. Dont forgive him just because he was nice at some point, you dont owe him anything! Be brave, and strong mummy! 💪
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