Whats your take for husband that watches porn? And when confronted, he deny until you show him proof?

I think it should be fine. Some porn is healthy and you as a couple can learn from it :-) Of course, I'm referring to the soft ones. Ones that involve violence or of minors should be prohibited. This is is just grossly sick. And be careful in storing your porn stash so the kids won't find them. Let's be adults here okay? :-)