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Frankly, anybody in their right mind will not tell other people's kids off, especially if the parents or grandparents is/are there. If maid was with the child, maybe the stranger will tell the child off if maid is incapable or distracted. Yet again, the stranger could have not been in his right mind or the child was being a plain nuisance and no one is restraining the child. I think sometimes parents also need others help in controlling the kids. I would use the opportunity to teach my kids how they are disturbing or harming others so they should stop it - and how would they know what I say is true if no one is disturbed? - that said, provided the child is at fault after some investigation Well, I prescribe to the theory that it takes a "village to raise a child". But everybody has different parenting style and preferences so maybe u won't feel the same as me :)
I agreed with jinhui. I think most people will be not be such a busybody to step into disciplining a stranger's kid if the kid had not been a nuisance. If indeed my kid is in the wrg, n the stranger come forward to tell my kid off then I will accept it, because I failed to discipline my own child. But if my child is not in the wrg, then I will just ignore
It really depends on how your child has behaved. When I see a child being harmful to others ( not only to my kid) and the guardian is not there to reprimand or restrain I tell the child off in a firm but gentle way. When we are out, I try to keep my eyes on my child all the time to make sure he does not hurt others or be a nuisance to anyone.
For me I dun care... Just smile back at them n I will tell my kids dun care also no need to make myself upset ... I will also tell them that what happen if they dun behave outside so if u dun like people to say bad things to u... U have to behave...
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I will take it positively if they are not too harsh & my child is really too naughty.
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