What do you do when you feel that your only hope to save the relationship is through counseling but your spouse won't cooperate at all?

Try convincing him and if you think you tried hard enough but still it ended up with the same result. Try to ask his parent's help. Yun tipong kakausapin sya ng magulang nya or ng magulang mo ng maayos para maconvince na mag undergo sa counseling. it doesnt mean naman na may problema ka sa pag iisip pag nag attend ka ng mga counseling. it means lang na may kulang at kailangan natin ng guide. dont give up yet mommy. he's your husband afterall.