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What was the most difficult thing you felt you and your hubby had to go through postpartum or during the pregnancy? Asking as a 26w ftm. We fight alot now because I feel he’s not ready but I always wonder if anything will change or even get worse after my kid is born.

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For me I find reduced mobility in trimester 3 difficult as a “single” mom. A familiar feeling in first pregnancy as well. I don’t really argue with my husband and more of treat him as transparent. Ask for help many will say, but if they don’t care and is immature, the process of disappointment and frustration is more damaging emotionally. Try to reduce ur expectations and strengthen back-up support - get help (maid/confinement/home massages/join forum) etc to reduce dependency. If arguing doesn’t change the outcome, preserve ur peace.

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