What are some of the most annoying things that non parents have said to you since you have become a parent?

People will always question and criticize you, your ways of parenting. 1. For my 1st born, i'm overprotective, so now people is blaming me for her late speech (just because they didn't get to hear what they want, aunt, uncle, etc or other people (relative) kids talk better than her. That's why i hate comparison!) Anyway she is going to school for almost a year, the teachers don't complain nor worried about her speech, i don't think you need to worry about it, anything teachers will inform me to do something about it and that is usually how to handle your kids temper! (Now she is doing well like a parrot.) 2. For my 2nd born, i let my son explore by letting him crawl on the floor. People get excited when they saw him crawling and start commenting he will be fast etc, but no one stop me and say shouldn't let him crawl on the floor before he cry. So when he cry, all blame you for letting him to crawl.. So no training, and expect him to walk next month? Anyway, i didn't let him cry more than 1 minutes than carry him up, i carry him up straight away when he cry. And my baby can't talk now, so isn't it normal for him to cry when he is tired or hungry? 3. For my 1st born, overprotective, now she is a picky eater, especially when i didn't monitor her during my confinement, now we have hard time feeding her, she is already 2 years old, and still expecting her to be on porridge forever.. So for my 2nd born, i decided to go more on BLW, and my GMIL who see his progress, is slowly excepting him with BLW style, but those who don't see him everyday, start to give many many comments say i should feed porridge instead of rice, but he is taking rice well, is only you can't feed him neatly, but he is doing BLW ok but just a bit messy. Which kid don't eat a mess? 4. By teaching my own children not to bring the toys home and cause them to cry mean i'm a bad parent? So by spoiling her and let her take people toys home mean i'm a good parent? 5. We can't scold our own children, but you can scold my children, well done