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Onlyfans as a married man? At the end of the day, it all boils down to his morals & values. Some people say, so what he look as long as he doesnt do anything physically with another women. But to a certain extent, we humans get bored. What makes you think porn/onlyfans will only stop there? Marriage isnt suppose to feel like a prison. But there should be some ground rules. Things like this if you let it be, will just cause further strain in your marriage in the long run. Please speak with him. Some are willing to change and be a better husband & partner if they know it causes so much pain to you. Some will just hide it better. At the end of the day, are you willing to compromise on this or will this eat you alive from the inside? It hugely depends on you babe ❤️ hugs
Personally I wouldn’t be comfortable (even though I am ok with porn) cos it is the intentional act to find a particular woman so desirable that they subscribe and pay for their service, similar to hiring escorts or seeking prostitutes. I think everyone’s boundaries and comfort level are different. If you feel uncomfortable or upset about it, pls speak to him. Also if he’s intentionally hiding it from you, means he knows it’s wrong and/or that you will be upset. And I draw the line at my partner doing something even though he knows it crosses my boundaries.
Personally, i’ve been on casual rs with a lot of married men and to them its just the sex. They still want their family/marriage/children but they get bored and want new experiences. I know this because i always ask them why do they do this. (dont judge me pls this was when i was way younger) these men do this while their wife is pregnant/in their 40s. They pretend to go for a drive/run but actually within that hour they literally going out to release their lust. So always be KPO and on your toes. Men knows how to hide.
Im sorry but he’s paying for such services, personally i find that cheating. Its not like a ig post/random tik tok video. He’s paying for it. Meaning he wants to see it on PURPOSE. I would not shut up to not create a scene. I will confront him and if he wants to have a loving marriage, he better stop. Be firm now before its too late mummy!
It depends on the individual. It is similar to porn. Some ladies are okay with their partners watching it. I am not one of them though. Hahaha and I also don't oogle at men in a sexual way but we do point out to each other if someone is good looking.
We are the type who openly talks about everything and have known each other for more than 10 years. I mean, a once in a blue moon watching is fine, we are only humans but to subscribe? That is commitment and considered often. lol And there is no correlation acknowledging good looking people and having sexual desires. something wrong everytime you see someone good looking, you are thinking sexual stuff about them.
I’d ask him why he do that. But honestly I think it’s just to satisfy his needs? Like we mums also use tiktok / ig for cute guys right
NO.
Huge dealbreaker for me as I feel like it’s cheating. Especially paying for their content. I would definitely confront him
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