Its gonna hurt of course. But these are the times that ur child will need you most. try to find the reasons first why he/she lied. sometimes masakit man iaccept its also our fault why they sometimes lie. you have to tell them how u feel and encourage them to tell them how they feel too but without judging them.
For sure there will be a heart to heart talk and I'll ask him why he lied to me. I will not punish him though. I'll just emphasize that lying will bring him no good especially if he already has a family of his own. Lying will put his marriage in danger.
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As early as possible, I will confront my child. I will let him know that I knew he was lying and I don't want him to do it again. Otherwise, he will have to be ready for the consequences.
I'll tell everything to my husband and the 2 of us will talk to our child. We'll emphasize that lying will do harm him and it must stop by any means.
I would ground him from using phone, laptop, tablet and he can't go out and hang with his friends after work. I'll cut his allowance too.