what does the employer mean when just before you pop, she says if you do not want to come back to work, its ok too. and when you returned after your maternity leave, she says nothing gets done when you are not around (and the fact that i delegated my work nicely before i pop).

yes it was. i was got upsetted that i went into delivery a few days later. i wonder why she can say those words when i put in my very best as a middle manager in the school, supporting her as a principal.

Maybe she is trying to provoke you to see if you would leave on your own accord. I would say just ignore

thanks babe

thats what i thought so too. thought i was being sensitive. but to say that to a mother who is going to pop i think is not very needed and tactful. to think she is a principal of a secondary school.