What's the best thing to do if you felt like your in-laws disrespected you?

Call them out on it, but politely. Just sweeping things under the rug or being passive-aggressive towards them isn't healthy. Plus, speaking openly (but with care) can even strengthen your relationship. :) Here's an article, which is based on another question here on ParentTown, that I found helpful: https://ph.theasianparent.com/mother-in-law-who-cant-stop-criticizing-you-tips/ Her situation is quite similar to yours. Hope this helps!

Just smile, understand, and politely talk to them :) You shouldn't never be disrespected but at the same time you should also be respectful to your in-laws. Goodluck!