What are the top 3 things you fight about as a couple?

Main three things we fight about as a married couple is: when my partner doesn't do his part on helping me clean and organize the house. During my pregnancy it's been hard for me to bend down and sweep/mop the floor, do laundry and take out the trash. If I have to ask more than 3 times... There's a problem. Keeping up with house duties and responsibilities before our LO arrives is crucial for my peace of mind. When there's an inadequate of balance of love, understanding and communication within the needs and expectations for our life path. I'm usually the one planning and organizing our budgets and events, sometimes I feel like I'm doing too much and if he could just understand what our priorities are and why it is expected in this journey, then it would help me feel like we're in this together rather than me facing it alone. And last but not least, when I have to remind him why things need to be done. Again, during pregnancy my tasks and strengths are limited. Bending and weight lifting are limited. I can't keep up with house work and daily duties as before. I don't need to keep reminding him of the things that are in plain sight, and obvious to solve. I guess overall, it's frustrating when you can't get things done yourself and have to rely on others to get duties done.