It’s normal to feel affected, especially when we get more self conscious during pregnancy with all the extra weights we’ve put on. My husband’s colleague mum told me “Wa you became fatter” when I was below my prepregnancy weight - 42kg (the first time she saw me - 46kg I was way heavier then but not pregnant). 🙃
But I just brushed it off and told her “I’ve been eating too well and enjoying life now” 😌
The thing with old people is that they don’t filter their words and won’t go and think if it will hurt others.
Don’t get too affected by it, you’ll soon be numb to all these unnecessary remarks. Don’t let a nobody affect your mood 😊.