I really feel you on this because I went through the same dilemma before my second delivery and it honestly kept me up at night. For me, the VBAC recovery was so much better lah, I was walking around properly within a day or two compared to my first caesarean where I struggled even to carry my baby. That said, every pregnancy is different, so I would really encourage you to have a long honest chat with your OB about your specific situation before deciding. Whatever you choose, trust yourself and your doctor, you know your body best.