My twin are 7mths+ now.. My elder son has been slping with me while my younger son has been slping with my inlaws since birth... As at night i still wake up to express milk and my hubby will be slping that i can't handle both togther if put in my room. Thus hubby suggested to put one of them to my inlaws room. Initially i tried to put both in my room to take care of them.. but often while doing pumping during the night, they cried and i alone difficult to take care of them.. (sometimes will wake hubby up to look after them! If not i will stop pumping and carry them till they sleep then i continue to pump...thus im super lack of sleep!) I am worried that my younger son will not recognise me as his mother. Will he thinks my mil is his mother? As mil has been taking care both of them while im working.. Recently has this feeling tat younger son seldom smile to me but to them he smile.. Kind of hurt and sad.. i even thou of maybe to stop my pumping so i can have more time to spare for them and consider to bring the younger one over to my room. Feeling sad..