Hi dear, thank you for sharing.
From what you’ve said, your father is trying to reach out to you. Perhaps this is his way of showing he cares about you. If you don’t like hearing from him now, it might be that you find that it’s too late for him to show concern now, when he didn’t do that for you when you were young and needed him. I sense some hurt and deep wounds, but from your sharing, you also seem conflicted. There are some people who would find it easy to shut their fathers out forever, but it doesn’t seem to be the case for you. So I guess the question is, can you forgive him? Are you okay with giving him a chance to be a part of your life now? And your baby’s life too...
Of course, this is your baby and pregnancy. It’s up to you and your husband who and when you want to tell about your pregnancy. But I hope you’ll make a decision that brings you peace and love, and one that leaves you with no regrets.
Congratulations on your baby! 🎉 I may not know you personally but I’m happy for you!