Those with no maid , no in law or parents help etc .. how do u n hubby split the housework between the two of u ? Is your hubby calculative / or not calculative ? as in if u can't do your housework cos u are sick or too exhausted from handling children or work, that he will help u clear some urgent ones even though that is not within his scope of housework that is agreed upon?

I’m lucky... my husband has been trained by his parents to do chores since young so he mainly takes responsibility for housework ☺️ We also realized that it’s a lot more manageable when we do chores as and when we need to instead of making it a big deal E.g. washing dishes immediately instead of accumulating, separating whites from colored clothes in different laundry bags after use, vacuuming small spaces when we see dust/hair instead of doing major vacuuming to the whole house, using spray cleaning agents in toilet instead of scrubbing Other than that, my husband vacuums, cleans the fans and dusts the shelves once a month by himself and tells me to leave the house while he does that and then I do weekly laundry.