Working parents

Hi mummy! Me and my husband we both work 12hr shift. Downside yes we do spend lesser time with him after work since i be home by 9-9:30pm and my husband at 10:30pm. So apparently my mum will put my son for his nap and he will wakeup by himself at 10:15pm. So that will be the time me and my husband able to spend time with him. But sometimes my son will just sleep thru out the night. Every single time before we left for work or before our son goes to sleep, we always talked to him n informed him that we need to go work n why we need to work. Yes its painful for nt able to spend long hrs, but for me my boss able to let me wfh at times when i need to. Me n my husband also have different off days.. so i always remind him, even if im not around pls spend more time with him and dnt let him feel like his parents neglected him. Hes 5months now and ive actually missed his 1st turn. But at this time mummy, we just need to be strong and dont ever stressed ourself because we always try and want the best for them.