MIL rant arghhs

Question

Tell me am I right to be angry or annoyed. Seriously a few times my MIL comes over and kinda expect me to open the door when she has card access. Ok fine, I open it. But today she decided to open herself w the card access and came in and put on the things she buy and do whatever things in the kitchen then went to the toilet. She came in and out and ignored both me and my daughter. Even my daughter like why nainai didnt talk to her. Maybe Im the bitch who didnt call her first but why do this to my daughter. After that she just sat there on the floor to use her phone. I really didnt bother to go greet her then. My daughter unfortunately not feeling well and vomited in the morning, and she kept asking her to drink since she is not well. Lo and behold she vomited again.. soooo annoyed and whats worse is my husband asks me not to be angry?! Wth.

Bimo W · Answer

You are not wrong to feel annoyed at all, especially the part where she ignored your daughter first and then turned around and kept pushing her to drink when she was already unwell and vomited. Your husband asking you not to be angry is the part that would really get me too, because he should be the one stepping in to set some expectations with his own mum lah. The card access thing also needs a proper conversation because walking in and out like that without even acknowledging you both is just not okay.