Ay anak, nakakaintindi ako ng frustration mo kasi ganyan din ang karanasan ng maraming kaibigan ko na nakatira sa maliit na bahay with extended family, super triggering talaga pag walang personal space, lalo na ngayon na may baby ka na paparating. Hindi ka nag-iisa sa feeling na ito, and it's valid na gusto mo mag-settle with your husband properly.
Honestly, the irritability mo ay totally understandable given ang physical discomfort and lack of privacy, pero if it's getting really overwhelming, maybe check with your OB or a counselor din, kasi stress during pregnancy ay kailangan i-manage para sa health mo and baby.
For now, practical tip: a few moms I know na nasa similar situation nag-set up ng "quiet time" sa bahay after lunch or early evening, and kaya nila i-enforce it because may organized plan. For the moving out goal, look into rent-to-own schemes or small condo units in your area, maraming developers now na nag-ooffer ng flexible payment terms, kaya siguro makaka-save kayo slowly habang naghihintay ng second floor. Talk din sa hubby about creating a realistic timeline and budget together, kasi mas nakakatulong ang partnership dito rather than you carrying the stress alone.