Would you stay in the relationship even you're not happy just for the kids?

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I am on the same situation, i guess. My husband and i do not agree in terms of how he manage his finances (because i shoulder our expenses, and all of his salary is directly given only to his mom), how he gives much of his time for his parents and siblings, his group of friends, his workmates leaving us feel unprioritized and unloved. I am married to an immature-happy go lucky-irresponsible man. What should i do? Pls help.

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You can first make him shoulder 50% of the finances. Which is fair in all account unless his parents really need the money. After resolving the financial issue, take a 1 month break and see if you wish to pursuit the issue. Please take it 1 by 1.. baby steps and slowly it may or may not resolve. Review the status quo and see if you can accept it ;)