9 month old development delay

Hi mummy, I think you give yourself too much pressure. My girl ifc can bathe the infant. Since when ecda says can’t bathe? Maybe you want to check with them. My girl at 9mo old can only sit unsupported. Crawl is only those commando crawl (ie: like a worm, she only start crawling on knees at 11mo). Standing comes at 10mo. Different babies have different milestone timing, don’t compare & stress urself . If you really believe that it’s nutrition that is causing the milestone problem, maybe you want to bring them for a check at poly & ask them refer u to kkh. As for food & milk, I just go according to baby’s cues. The more you frustrated with them for not eating /drinking, the more stress the babies are and they won’t eat /drink. (They can feel the stress & tension). And at 13mo now, my girl can’t hold spoon to self feed & refuse to hold her own milk bottle, but that’s ok. Cos she prefer to use her hand to grab her food & want me to feed her milk in her milk bottle. All these comes with patience and practice with them, and they will learn. At 9mo, ur twins shld start to know pincer grip (hold small item with thumb & index finger). Train them with those small snacks and once mastered the skills, they can self feed with their hands. Babies don’t suddenly “learn” these skills. It take time & practice and ultimately when the time for the milestone to “unlock”, it will unlock. All we need to do is to practise with them and be patient. Lastly, ignore all these other people nagging you. You are already doing a great job 👏🏻

hey mummy. a big hug to you! i think youbare such a great mum to sacrifice your sleep so to ensure your twins are clean before ifc and working hard for the family! though is hard not to feel stressful when people around you are not being very nice and considerate, i still wanna tell you that every kid is different and they have their own learning curve. i do see babies/toddlers who cant crawl and yet able to stand and walk at 13th-15th month! so i believe your twins will surprise you with their growth spurt one day! as for their nutritions intake, i advise you to see a doc to ensure that they are actually getting enough and see what can the doctor advise since they do not want to drink milk or eat food as much as last time.