anyone can make insensitive comments. i felt depressed in the first few months when mil and nanny made comments about my baby. it was very depressing back then because our hormones went haywired. now after 7 months, i still hear insensitive comments and i just ignore them. think on the positive side. when someone says baby is naughty, tell them that baby is exploring and learning. "naughty" is better than a baby who just lie there and do not respond to people