Unstable Relationship

Can someone atleast enlighten me on my situation? Should i just give up or fight because of my daugther? Me and my boyfriend are always fighting, he kept on accusing me that i have some other boys, one time he accused me having relationship with my bestfriend which is a boy (bff since college days), so what i did is i stayed away from that bff to save our relationship, then we became okay, after few months he accused me having a secret guy with my social media account which he can access freely. He kept on telling me that i am deleting convos from boys. Our baby is now 2yrs old. Since i gave birth he change the ways he is. He kept on accusing me and thinking i am cheating. Im feeling this relationship is so unhealthy for me, yet i dont want my baby to grow up without a father. Advice please.

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The question is do u still love him? Because if yes, then try to assure him that you love him and not just telling him that you dont have other relationships. Also check if he’s the one having someone on the side. Men usually accuse because they are guilty of the crime. Whatever you do, dont fight with your bf in front of your child. Do not tell your child that her dad is an bad person—this might damage her future relationships with men. If you dont love him, leave. No point in staying.

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If the only thing that is stopping you from leaving the relationship is your child.. LEAVE and take your child with you. There are so many ways he can still be a father to your daughter. You can always try co-parenting. ^

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You are giving up parts of your life for this. I think this is not healthy in the long run. If you are not happy together now, chances are, your baby will sense it after growing up.

Try to see where his doubts are coming from. Sometimes people are paranoid because they are guilty of doing what they are accusing us with. 😉

old school style. creating an issue kinda guy to make a relationship put to an end

That's emotional abuse. Google "gaslighting". Love yourself more.

baka sya ang meron na. thinkers are doers

Home Just Mums someone atleast enlighten situation should i give fight because daugther boyfriend always fighting kept accusing that i have some other boys time accused having relationship with bestfriend which boy bff since college days what i did i stayed away from that bff save relationship then became okay after few months accused having secret guy with social media account which access freely kept telling that i deleting convos from boys baby now 2yrs o