Ay, mahirap talaga ang sitwasyon mo, sis! Kaya ko kung gaano ka-stressful pag may family conflict around parenting, a few of us mums have been through similar situations where there's disagreement on how to raise the kids, at ang nanay namin or in-laws sometimes may sariling strong opinions na nakaka-overwhelm. The best thing I found is to sit down calmly with your partner first (without the baby present) to align kung ano talaga ang gusto ninyong approach, then present it as a united front sa pamilya, mas mahirap mag-argue kung magkaisa kayo pareho. Lagi ring helpful na gentle pero firm, like "we appreciate your advice, but we've decided na ito ang best for our family," at then redirect pa lang sa practical stuff. Sending you strength, mama, alam ko hindi yan madali pero kaya mo yan!