For my first child, we did a 1 mth celebration at my HDB flat. Super cramped. Lol. We used the space outside for the buffet table, and packed in as many chairs as possible. But it was cosy, cheaper and baby got to sleep in her cot when she needed, plus I also could go into my room to breastfeed. Catering wise, we got a regular catering service. Someone I know is a pro dessert/cake chef, so she did the dessert spread for us:)
Chalet sounds exciting but also potentially stressful. There aren’t a lot of baby friendly facilities, and not all babies can handle 3D2N there. You might be quite tired also. I guess some hotels at least have baby cribs + bath tub, which makes things a bit easier.
Comparing 1 month and 100 days, at 1 month, baby’s awake interval is only about 45-60minutes, so baby is likely to either be sleeping or feeding or cranky (overtired). At 100 days, baby can stay awake longer, also smiles and interacts more, so if that’s important to you, you may want to choose the latter.
For my 2nd child, my husband straight up told me we’re not doing either, and instead, we’ll do a 1 yr birthday celebration instead 😂 Clearly he’s still a bit traumatised from a few years ago.
michtolin