Ay nako, first off sending you a big hug, alam ko na sobrang heavy ng situation na ito. Maraming mums dito na nag-experience ng same thing (gestational sac lang walang fetus), at yung most common advice nila is mag-wait for a follow-up ultrasound after 1-2 weeks para ma-confirm kung talaga blighted ovum or kung late pa lang ang development. Some had their OB recommend RASPA after confirmation, iba nag-opt for natural miscarriage muna, kaya talaga ay case-to-case. My neighbour went through RASPA din last year at sabi niya the procedure itself was quick, pero the emotional part is what really takes time to heal, so make sure you have support around you, ha. The hard truth is na the only way to be 100% sure kung blighted ovum talaga is through ultrasound with your OB, so don't hesitate to book na na with your specialist para ma-discuss ninyo the options and timeline, they'll know your full medical picture best. Kaya mo yan, and you're doing the right thing reaching out.