Mama, ito talaga kailangan mo i-check agad with your OB, hindi dapat i-ignore ang ganitong situation, lalo na 3rd degree, kaya please get proper medical check-up ASAP, okay? I know maraming moms dito nagsabi ng similar stories, pero every tear heals differently and kailangan talaga ng expert to monitor kung paano siya umuusad, wag mag-rely lang sa "iiwan nang bukas," kase kung may infection or improper healing, mas malaki problema. Kausap mo agad ang doctor mo about your concerns, the healing process, at ano talaga dapat gawin, they can give you proper guidance based sa actual condition mo. Sending you lots of strength, mama!