Aww sayang, I'm so sorry you're going through this, ectopic pregnancy is really tough emotionally and physically, especially as your first. A few of my mum friends have been there too, and honestly yang paling important right now is to give yourself grace during healing, both the wound and the heart lah. Ectopic can happen to anyone even without any previous issues, sometimes it's just bad luck with how the embryo implanted, but definitely sit down with your doctor about what might've caused yours, because they can do proper tests and give you clarity (and hope!) for trying again. Most mums I know who went through this did go on to have successful pregnancies after, so this isn't the end of your story. Take time to heal first, lean on people around you, and when you're ready, your doctor can monitor you extra carefully next time. Sending you strength