Ay iba talaga ang impact ng negative talk sa pregnant moms, lalo na first-timers na anxious na talaga! You're so right, what matters is na healthy ang mama at baby, whether vaginal, VBAC, or CS, at ang huli na judgment natin sa isa't isa dapat wala. One of my mum friends din nag-share na na-pressure siya ng tita niya to go natural kasi "mas maganda," pero after CS siya, nasayang lang ang guilt na dinala niya for a year, so unnecessary yan. Thank you for speaking up in that waiting room and for reminding us na lahat ng birth journeys are valid and equally beautiful, at tayo as mothers deserve support regardless of how our babies came into the world, hindi judgment!