Eh sama lah, first movement mmg confusing sebab macam butterflies atau denyut-denyut je, bukan terus kicking! A few of us tried describing it to our partners and dia org tak percaya sampai later when it became proper kicks. Normally around 16-20 weeks you'll feel it, tapi if first baby, boleh lambat sikit before you realise "oh that's the baby!" instead of thinking your stomach gas haha. Enjoy this phase je, sebab later masa third trimester kena tahan sekejap kena tendang kuat-kuat!