I appreciate you sharing this, but honestly this topic is more about Islamic rulings and marital guidance, bukan really my area as a parenting forum mum, you know? Untuk perkara-perkara agama macam ini, it's better to refer to ustaz or ustazah yang qualified, or trusted Islamic resources, since setiap couple's situation boleh berbeza and needs proper religious guidance. If you're looking for general marriage advice or communication tips with hubby, I'm here to help with that!