Should i marry the guy who did this to me ?

He said he was sorry, he even cried and he even promised that he won't do it again. The reason i had that bruise was because that i caught him cheating on me when we were in a LDR. He didn't want to admit it and blamed it on me. On this 21st of Dec this year, i was suppose to be marrying this guy. Guess what, he did it again guys. Even though i gave him many chances, he took it for granted and he wasn't even sorry for it. He's a narcissists, abuser and also has anger managent. I already said its over and i cancel everything. I even blocked him on every socmed. But he kept calling my family, he said he was sorry again and he won't do it again and tears were falling. How on earth should i handle this type of guy ? Coz i have anxiety plus depression and if it includes this guy in my life, its a very messy life. #pleasehelp #advicepls #bantusharing #abuse #help

Should i marry the guy who did this to me ?
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i pun sebelum kahwin bf suka naik tangan. and i ingat dia berubah. tapi lepas kahwin dia still naik tangan. dan dalam masa sama I duduk dgn makayah mertua. diorang dpt tahu anak dia pukul i. terus ayah mertua panggil i. dia xmarah i tapi dia marah anak dia. dia cakap "Tak kira salah siapa, siapa mulakan ke, ayah taknak tahu pun. Kau ada nampak ke ayah pukul mak kau bila gaduh? Tak pernah kan? Kau pukul bini kau kenapa? Sedangkan makayah dia sendiri tak pernah naik tangan. Lepasni berulang lagi, ayah angkut bini kau g balai polis, ayah sendiri akan seret kau ke dalam. Tak kira kau anak aku ke tak. Salah tetap salah" Sejak dari situlahhh husb i terus berubah. Tak pernah sekali naik tangan pada i. I bersyukur sbb fmly mertua dia layan i dgn baik sgt². Dan asbab ayah mertua i bela i kes kena pukul dgn anak dia sndiri. terus anak dia xberani angkat tgn lagi pd i. Better u tinggalkan dear. Kalau u bernasib baik dia boleh ubah kira ok. tp kalau xboleh susah pd diri u dear. i tahu macam mana sakitnya tu kena pukul. Tp alhamdulillah allah buka pintu hati suami i. Sampai skrg dia xpernah naik tangan. Moga u jumpa lelaki yang baik ya dear.

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aduhaii terharu baca mertua sis baik sgt..huhuu